Teaching Mindfulness Meaningfully to Children

Mindfulness is an approach to life which quite simply means paying attention to the present moment.  Straightforward right?  Well actually, not always.

Life is so busy that we can be easily distracted from fully noticing exactly what is going on in the here and now.  Also, our mind is often time traveling – it can be ruminating on past events and conversations or planning, organising or worrying about the future.  Science is strongly suggesting that mindfulness-based techniques can help all ages; helping people to develop strategies to deal with every day stress, low mood and anxious thoughts, as well as helping increase contentment levels.

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Thankfully many schools are beginning to cotton on to how important it is to help students look after their well-being and some school leaders see mindfulness as a significant aspect of this.  However, with the current financial situation for many UK schools still very challenging, there is not always enough funds available for schools to introduce mindfulness to students in a meaningful way.  All too often mindfulness in schools is about popping on a YouTube video for a few minutes every now and then.  This has limited benefits and can sometimes do more harm than good.  What we don’t want is our children to misunderstand what mindfulness is and be ‘turned off’ from what they perceive it to, be by well-intended but inexperienced teachers.

With this in mind I ran my first after-school mindfulness course for 9 – 11 year olds this term.  I would much rather be delivering mindfulness sessions to young people in a school environment but the school budget constraints mean this is a rarity at the moment,  so I decided to sow some positive seeds for the future by running a Mission: Mindfulness ‘Tweens’ course at the local library.

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I thoroughly enjoyed delivering the course and was pleased with how it was being received, but it’s always good to get some feedback… so at the end of the course I asked the students for ‘2 stars and a wish’ – language they may well be used to hearing at school –  and basically a way to find out what they liked about the course, and what they would like improved.

Here are the responses:

The Stars:

  • It was good to be able to practice at home.
  • It was a really friendly environment.
  • I really liked that you listened to everyone’s ideas and let us all contribute.
  • It was very nice to go outside for some of the sessions.
  • It was really great that you explained everything very well so we understand.
  • The course is well planned out!
  • The course helped us.
  • I learned not to think too much.
  • I liked hearing what other people had to say about their thoughts and feelings.
  • I liked how the teacher taught us and explained things if I didn’t know what to do.
  • It helps you deal with your worries and thoughts about future events.
  • It gives you a time to relax and helped you think about one thing at a time.
  • I really enjoyed the mindful eating and the FOFBOC exercise but I also loved everything else that you taught me too!
  • I liked the notebooks and drawing our thoughts.
  • I liked the breathing exercises.
  • It was nice to be able to do the practices at home.
  • It was relaxing when we got to meditation.

The Wishes:

  • even more things to calm our minds!
  • More book work at home.
  • More lessons.
  • More time to calm down.
  • I wouldn’t recommend for you to change anything – I really, really want to do this mindfulness course again because it has helped me a lot with my anger and stress.
  • It was really fun.
  • More time to write and draw.
  • I wish there were more sessions.

If ever there were a set of comments that spur me on to try and get mindfulness into schools more, or at the very least to get it to more young people, then these are they.

It may well take some nudges for schools to spend money on delivering a ‘proper’ mindfulness course.  If you too think it’s worthwhile teaching a mindfulness course as part of the school curriculum, please do talk to the people who have the power to make this happen –  Headteachers and Deputy Heads, school governors and the decision-makers on the ‘Parent-Teachers Associations’ would all be good starting-points for conversations.

If you would like any help finding a qualified mindfulness teacher for young people in your area then please don’t hesitate to contact me and I will do my best to point you in the right direction.

Let’s get mindfulness being taught meaningfully in more schools.

handwritten Hayley

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27 Comments

  1. July 13, 2018 / 3:27 pm

    Well done Hayley! As you know, I love mindfulness and teach this to children too. Xx #blogcrush

  2. July 14, 2018 / 9:03 am

    Mindfulness is wonderful and I wish school could have the funds to embrace it, I work at a school and budgetary constraints are such that staff get cut no way could we afford mindfulness. How about approaching the government or charitable organisations that could help get it into schools? Just a thought. #BlogCrush

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:26 pm

      Thank you – I have discussed it with MPs before – charities are a good idea. Thank you xx

  3. shelbeeontheedge1
    July 14, 2018 / 1:49 pm

    Mindfulness is so important. I have been trying to teach it to my 5 and 7 year olds and it is kind of difficult to teach, for sure. But they were teaching it to my 7 year old in his first grade class this past year. I really like that they are approaching learning with mindfulness and teaching it as step one in the process of learning. Great post and really great tips! #BlogCrush

    Shelbee
    http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:25 pm

      Thank you – that’s excellent that your 7 year old has been taught it regularly xx

  4. July 14, 2018 / 6:10 pm

    Great work! The comments from the children are so positive. #thesatsesh

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:24 pm

      Thanks so much xx

  5. July 14, 2018 / 7:03 pm

    May the sessions you run at the library have a ripple effect that see it go on to be featured in a whole range of places including the classroom. #thesatsesh

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:24 pm

      Thank you Helena – a ripple effect would be lovely xx

  6. July 14, 2018 / 7:05 pm

    What lovely comments from the children. Although I’m not surprised. I wish mindfulness was taught when I was at school and I’m sure I’m not the only one. #thesatsesh

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:24 pm

      I really wish I had been taught it at school too! xx

  7. July 14, 2018 / 8:33 pm

    Self care for school aged kids is so important! It needs to be taught!! #thatsatsesh

  8. July 15, 2018 / 10:45 am

    What a brilliant service to children. I think mindfulness for children is really beneficial for children X #thesatsesh

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:23 pm

      It really is xx

  9. Catie
    July 15, 2018 / 2:42 pm

    I’m working on getting some mindfulness introduced at our school fingers crossed 🤞🏼 #thesatsesh

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:23 pm

      Oooh that’s exciting – fingers crossed xx

  10. July 15, 2018 / 10:28 pm

    Love it! We’re starting homeschooling this year and I want to incorporate mindfulness lessons. Any recommendations for resources or books? #blogcrush

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:22 pm

      Oooh that’s exciting – have a look on the Mindfulness In Schools Project website for some info. XX

  11. mackenzieglanville
    July 16, 2018 / 8:23 am

    I love reading how it calmed them and helped with anger and how relaxed they felt, such positive feedback. I really feel having these tools will help set them up for a healthier future, I wish I knew those skills when I was anxious as a child. Thank you for being inspirational and for linking up with #ablogginggoodtime

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:21 pm

      Awww thank you Mac for the lovely comment xx

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 16, 2018 / 10:20 pm

      I totally agree – thank you for the comment xx

  12. Lucy At Home
    July 17, 2018 / 11:00 am

    Wow you can’t ask for better feedback than that! I do think mindfulness is a great resource and, though I am not an expert, I find it so helpful in my every day life and am trying to pass it onto my kids #blogcrush

    • onamindfulmummymission
      July 17, 2018 / 9:24 pm

      Thanks Lucy – great that you are modelling it for your children xx

  13. July 18, 2018 / 4:49 pm

    #thesatsesh when it works, schools will always get on board – when its cheap, they jump at it. Thats why i know this practical solution to the hustle and chaos of life is here to stay

  14. September 5, 2018 / 11:07 am

    Lovely work, we are dealing with this gorgeous new generation who have an even more advanced cerebral cortex and so need to reign in the over-thinking.

    • onamindfulmummymission
      September 6, 2018 / 8:39 pm

      So very true xx

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